Learned from Michelle: Enjoy the Journey

With all the hustle and conflict and uncertainty today, how do you enjoy the journey?

 As parents we have responsibility to love and nurture and provide and teach and train our children. We hope they become responsible, moral, hardworking, creative, authentic adults and contributors to society. Many of us hope they become followers of Jesus. Most of us seek to do these things, with varying degrees of competency and success.

 As a grandmother I love watching my kids seek the same outcomes with their children. Sometimes I remind them of memories when we working through the same struggles.

 I’ve found that God seems to have an equally important role for our children in our lives. My children have been some of my best teachers. Number 2 daughter taught me this important lesson:

From the day she was born, Michelle has not been in a hurry. She slept much of her first year (I don’t wake sleeping babies). She cuddled, laughed, listened a lot and talked enough.

She played quietly, explored, created, painted, invented, rescued.

But she never rushed.

I’m more of a destination person. She’s more of a journey person. I like to get there. She likes the getting there.

Probably the words she heard most from me, after “I love you.” and “Please forgive me” were “Hurry up, we’re late.”

“We will be late to church, Michelle.” “Carpool is waiting, Michelle.” “We need to get to soccer practice, Michelle.”

Nothing hurried her. But I know I frustrated her, discouraged her, hurt her.

Over time, I began to hear the Lord whispering, “What’s your hurry, Judy?”

And he reminded me of those famous sisters, Mary and Martha.

Martha was focused on getting dinner ready. She rushed around, fretting that Mary wasn’t helping her.

And Mary? She was enjoying Jesus. Listening, learning, reflecting.

Slowly Michelle’s ability to live in the present, her not hurrying to the future, began to rub off on me. I still like to get things done, and I usually have a long list. But I have learned to let things go, to stop for people in my life, to leave tasks for another day.

I don’t get as much done. But I enjoy the journey so much more.

And Michelle? She’s a busy mom and a counselor, with her own business. She gets more done, but she still enjoys the journey.

What about you? How do you enjoy the journey?

C 2022 Judy Douglass